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50 things to say to each other to let go in bed

Because you want to have fun (rather than worry).

Because it is by letting go that we reach orgasm.

Because this orgasm may be memorable...

Because sex is a moment of sharing. But by thinking, you close yourself to the other.

Because if you find your desires daring, tell yourself that others do much worse. Really.

Because you will feel liberated and fulfilled.

Because afterwards, you will sleep better.

Because you don't have to complex:you are superb and that's it!

Because what are you risking, at worst? Honestly, huh? Nothing.

Because if you REALLY are afraid of doing wrong, just tell your man, and he will guide you. It will be a beautiful moment of sharing and moreover, he will be flattered.

Because making love is something that everyone (or almost) has done since the dawn of time. So, you think that in this heap there were only people without cellulite and who were masters of the technique, huh?

Because in any case it is not the technique that will make you take pleasure but the feeling, the passionate gaze,...

Because if you want it to last, you have to let go...

Because getting off is good for your health!

Because you can try lots of new positions, with funny names like "The little spoon" or "The pear tree".

Because trying new things will make you feel proud and confident.

Because you are the queen anyway!

Because if you miss the new stuff, at least you tried! And who does not try, does not achieve anything.

Because sex makes you even more beautiful:you'll be more fulfilled and that's all good.

Because you may be able to have fun taking up real sporting challenges, by testing one of these 8 positions...

Because if it's missed, it can be a fantastic moment of fun.

Because you'll be busting out in the street saying to yourself, "If you knew what I just did...I'm the Queen of Sex!" »

Because you will sweat even more and thus eliminate lots of toxins! Your body will thank you.

Because being simple and listening to yourself is the secret of happiness.

Because if there is one place where no wave of stress should penetrate, it is our bed, sacred temple of Zen, relaxation and pleasure.

Because you can advise your girlfriends / show off in front of them / laugh with them.

Because, absolutely, the eyes of others, you don't care.

Because it's REALLY illogical to complex about the look of your new man. Even dressed, do you think he hasn't seen your curves?

Because it's even more illogical to stress out if you've already had sex. He saw you naked, touched, caressed, kissed a large part of your body. He knows what you look like, and this in detail! And since he's not masochistic (normally), he thinks you're completely hot!

Because if he was judging you on your body, at least you would be fixed:this man is a fool –> run away!

Because if you don't let go for fear of seeing that it doesn't fit with him, it shows that there is already a big problem between you. So unplug your brain or run.

Because you have other fish to fry:life is already stressful enough to add stress to you on trivial things, right?

Because he doesn't have a perfect body either, so there's no reason to be complex.

Because the perfect body does not exist (except with Photoshop).

Because you are lucky to be alive and healthy. Stressing over something so light is borderline indecent.

Because if it existed, it would be really boring and anti-erotic because without any character.

Because you will know your body (much) better.

Because you would know (much) better your expectations, your limits, your personality, what you want or not in a man,…

Because you must pay homage to the inventor of Kâmasûtra.

Because you are worth more than your performance or your weight, right?

Because pleasure is communicative.

Because the more pleasure you both have, the more pleasure you will each have.

Because letting go means being more active and therefore giving your all. A fun way to build muscle.

Because learning to relax in bed also means learning to manage all your emotions outside. Which is very positive.

Because in absolute terms, there's no point in worrying about anything.

Because by letting go, you disconnect from the real world. And that in terms of relaxation, it's equivalent to a weekend in the countryside.

Because you should adore and revere your body rather than being self-conscious. It is he who allows you to be alive, to move, to vibrate, to make love, … So a little respect, damn!

Because letting go while remaining attentive to the desires of the other seems complicated but is in fact extremely easy.

Because there is nothing better than letting go in bed to release all tension and feel good…

Because it's beautiful to love yourself and to love the other, if only physically, to the point of wanting to merge in sex, quite simply.